Love and Timing

How is it that people who once thought they were in love fall out of love and blame it on timing? Everyone has had that one perosn that they thought, this is it. He/she is the one for me. Of course i had my one....we broke up and blamed it on bad timing. Yet we tried again later down the road and again it was blamed on bad timing. But wasn't it great timing that we met eachother in the first place? Or that we tried again later? Would it REALLY have worked out if it were at another time? See I have no regrets here, i feel we gave it our all and timing or not, it wasn't meant to be.

Recently I meet a new one, not as specail as the perviously mentioned person and thought, hey this might be it. Let me give it a try. Things were great, time was moving along and we were moving apart. I got worried, person A had stuff going on, and out time together was pushed back because of other things. it continued to go like that and things ended. A said that it was just bad timing. So does that mean I should try it again? I have done that before and it never really seems to be timing. If the right person is in front of you, it shouldn't matter what else is going on. You would make it work right???? So why do we blame timing?

What about when you meet the perfect one, but they live on another continent? Is that timing also? Maybe one of you were meant to move, or will move, do you presue that? This seems to be the problem I face. The one/s I want live about 6000 miles away. What if we have met, the timing was perfect, there is just this huge thing will call the ocean seperating us? What then? Who moves? Do you move? Do you try this so called long distance relationship? Or what if you are not even dating this person, but KNOW they are the perfect one for you, what now? The one you think about last when you fall asleep. The one who you dream about. The one who you are smiling and willing to get out of bed for just to daydream about them? Who cares if they are thinking about you the same way, if they knew your feelings it would be enough for the two of you.

So if timing really is what can make or break love, my question is how long do you wait for the one you want? Others come by, do you try, and see if it is perfect timing they came by, or do you wait for that one you truely, madly want?